How not to be A Bridezilla!

I dare anyone who says planning solemnization or wedding event is easy to come and meet me personally.

5 years in the arena, I had been asking numerous people the same question. Guess how many of them think organizing such event is easy?

None.

I repeat, none.

As obvious as it is, planning a solemnization or wedding event is stressful. From selecting invitations to choosing the right door-gifts for guests, a bride-to-be has to go through opinions and inputs from others, especially family members.

As a person who's going to have that memorable day carved in mind forever, you have the rights to manage and plan for the wedding. By saying this I'm not telling that you should not be listening to others' idea, but make-sure that you are well aware that you can have your say in managing your big day. 

First thing first, you have to get your mind straight. Let's forget about those fairy-tale wedding you've been dreaming since you were 6. Live in a reality for a moment to decide the them of your wedding based on your budget. Yes, booking for a venue is number 2 in the list. Until the theme of your wedding is finalized, looking for a venue is rather pointless.

Next, you should start booking for catering services. This is one of the important things a bride should take care of. A beautiful wedding makes the bride happy, but only with delicious food the guests will be happy. Now that you have had your themes, book the venue and the catering services, you should start finding a photographer and decoration vendor or you can simply hire a wedding planner. However, please know that if you think you have ample time to plan your own wedding, try and do it on your own. It will definitely give you and extra satisfaction and excitement.

Wedding assembles! Yes, every bride cannot escape from being excited over their wedding garments. Choosing the right dress will not only highlight you as the queen on your remarkable day, but will also assure that you look the same in your wedding photo. I would like the highlight the importance of choosing the right cutting for your body besides the material use for the garments. Do not take these two things for granted and I assure you that you will look great on your day.

All invitations must be sent out six weeks prior to the wedding. This is to important especially for guests staying outstation to plan their arrival. DIY invites are definitely great if you have sufficient time. Last but not least, floral arrangements, wedding cake, and shopping for dowry can be done at least 2 months before the wedding.